How it works
Last updated October 3, 2026
Nothing here is a surprise, not at the start and not later. Here's the whole thing.
1. Take the quiz, or choose your girl
You'll write a little about your last few days, then answer a few questions. It's adaptive, so it only asks what it needs to. Some women finish in two or three questions, some take eight. It's trying to find you, not sort you. Free, and no email required to see your result. If you want to keep your result, save it to a free account, and it'll be waiting next time you come back so you never have to retake it.
Already know who you are right now, or took the quiz before? Skip it and choose your girl directly.
2. Meet your girl and your companion
You'll learn who she is, what her name means, and why this season is hers. Then you'll meet your companion, the woman who has already walked this road, a few steps ahead of you. Also free. You can read all of it and leave, and you'll still have learned something about yourself.
3. Decide if you want her to walk with you
The interactive journals are where you write and your companion writes back. She gets to know you, remembers what you share, and asks new questions as you grow. We'll suggest the girl the quiz matched you with, but you can start with any girl you feel is you. You'll see the price and everything included before you sign up.
4. Your season will change, and she'll notice
As you keep writing, your companion pays attention. When your writing starts sounding like a different girl's season, she'll gently mention it, the way a friend would. If it fits, you can add that girl and choose to walk with her. If it doesn't, tap "Not now" and nothing changes. It's always your choice.
5. What access includes
- One login for everything you own, no access codes.
- Versions of HER and Daily Me!, each available interactive and in print. Letters to My Girls and Crowned in Confidence (standard and Melanated editions) are available in print.
- Versions of HER interactive is $4.99 a month. That includes your companion and the girl you choose when you sign up, with no limit on how much you write.
- More Versions of HER girls are $2.99 each, one time, or $19.99 once for every girl you don't have yet. They're optional, and every girl you unlock is yours to keep.
- Versions of HER renews monthly until you cancel. Cancel anytime from Manage billing in your library. If you cancel, your companion pauses, but your girls and everything you've written stay in your library. Restart anytime and she picks up where you left off.
- Daily Me! is $6.99 a month or $69.99 a year (2 months free), and keeps going past 2027 for as long as you do. Cancel anytime from your library. Your entries stay saved, so if you come back, she picks up right where you left off.
- The Companion Bundle is Versions of HER and Daily Me! together for $9.99 a month. If you already have one, you can add the other at the bundle price: Versions of HER is $3.00 a month for Daily Me! members, and Daily Me! monthly is $5.00 a month for Versions of HER members.
- When you have both, your Versions of HER companion answers your Daily Me! pages and can bring them up in your conversations. You can turn this off anytime. It only works while you have both: if you cancel either one, the link disconnects, Daily Me! answers in its own voice again, and your companion no longer sees your pages. Everything you've written stays saved.
- New girls, journals, and releases are added all the time. You'll always see the price before you buy anything.
- Each girl has her own collection of apparel and gifts, and the full URHER shop carries everything.
Ready when you are
Already know who you are right now? Pick her and start.
Not sure? A few honest questions and we'll suggest your girl. You can still choose for yourself.