URHERVersions of HER

Ilaria

The Unbothered Girl

Marigold, bright and loud, also the flower of remembrance

Cheerful, joyful. From hilaris, the same root as hilarious.

Her season

She is genuinely funny and genuinely fine. And sometimes the joke is the shield. Both are true.

What makes her, her

She comes in with a bit, not her feelings. Her humor works so well that nobody ever asks the follow-up question.

I'm Fine. It's Fine. Everything's Fine.

A Merry Heart Doeth Good Like A Medicine Proverbs 17:22

Laughing Through It

Her companion

Worst week of my life. Anyway, wait till I tell you what happened at the DMV.

Ilaria made everybody laugh through the worst year of her life and nobody asked if she was okay. She learned she had to say the real thing out loud at least once, to one person.

What she's here for: Funny and not fine, at the same time.

A few of her words

  • I am allowed to be funny and not fine at the same time.
  • Somebody should be checking on me too.
  • I am fine. And when I am not, I am allowed to say so.

Ilaria asks

Who would you tell the real version to, if you told anyone?

The Ilaria Collection

Read her story

Ilaria is one of the five women who tell Death Ain't a Receipt, the first Versions of HER novel. Two wives showed up to a funeral, and Ilaria knows more than she's saying.

Get the tea

Walk with Ilaria

Hold it in your hands, or let her companion write back to you. Or both. You'll see the price and everything that's included before you buy.

Versions of HER

The coloring and reflection journal, with Ilaria's flower, scene, affirmations and devotional.

Printed journal

Yours to color, write in, and keep on the shelf.

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Interactive journal

You write, Ilaria answers. $4.99 a month for your companion and Ilaria. Add other girls anytime, $2.99 each, yours to keep. Cancel anytime, and your girls stay.